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Dating The Boss: Part 2

I remember once having a discussion with a friend on this point and stating the very obvious. If he dated an older lady with a well-established, lucrative career, he had to expect that she would probably earn more than him and enjoy a better lifestyle. Not only that, but she would have worked really hard […]
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Dating The Boss: Part 1

I’ve been going over my favourite music as background to thinking about a fun playlist aimed at younger men who fancy older women and vice-versa. A few years back, a song entitled ‘Miss Independent ‘was released by the singer Ne-Yo. You may remember it. The lyrics were co-written by three men, Tor Erik Hermansen, Mikkel Eriksen and Shaffer Smith. Now […]
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The Boy Bunny Boiler

Psycho behaviour after a date or two, that endless texting, phoning, emailing with questions, or stalking on Twitter or FB is a girl thing right? The sort of thing that happens when the hormones get involved or a crush isn’t returned or a passionate weekend suddenly doesn’t have a follow up and hurt feelings turn […]
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30 Days of Blogs: Our Top 4 Revelations

30 Days of Blogs culminated yesterday and what an incredible month we have shared through insightful and entertaining blogs. Some of these were informed by scientific fact, and some by tried and tested experience. However, what each shares at the core is a message that challenges the way we view dating. If you didn’t read […]
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The rise and reinvention of the word cougar and cougar dating

The Rise and Reinvention of the ‘Cougar’

Cougar, noun 1.North American term for puma. 2. informal, an older woman seeking a sexual relationship with a younger man. Though cougar dating has always existed, it has been said that the term ‘cougar’ when used to mean an older woman sexually pursuing a younger man first occurred as recently as the 1980s in Canada. An […]
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Different Not Desperate

Spring is springing, the birds are um…..nesting……and a new crop of Toy boys has miraculously sprouted on TBW. Lovely likely lads with a penchant for putting their big feet right in the wrong place as far as I can see. Which brings me to the title above: like most of the women on TBW. —I am different, but […]
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The New Erotic? Sex between the Younger Man and the Older Woman

There are few situations that provide such an erotic frisson as a liaison between a younger man and an older woman. This concept is not a modern one: think of the French author Colette’s series of short stories about the characters Cheriand his mistress Lea, who enjoyed such a relationship over some ten years, despite a thirty-year age gap. There […]
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Inspiration Strikes in the Strangest of Places

The great thing about 2014 for a woman is all those boy/men with their abs and their T shirts off. When I was 20, it just didn’t happen, there wasn’t this overriding culture of body perfection that we have around us now. Not that my younger boy friends have all been bench pressers, far from […]
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The Secret Lives of Toyboy Warehouse Members

I’ve been meeting up recently with a number of female friends in their late forties and fifties and a theme seems to be emerging from the lives of the newly single: a journey deeper into self, including sexuality. These are women who were married or entered long time partnerships as long ago as the 1980’s […]
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In Praise of Good Boys

There is a popular view in the media that women love a “Bad Boy”, which may or may not be based on reality. Certainly some of the platonic male friends I’ve had over the years have confided that they have suffered from “Nice Man” syndrome. You know, being the dependable shoulder to cry on when […]
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Dating The Boss: Part 2

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