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What is the sexiest occupation for men?

It has been an on-going battle through the ages, who rules the sexual roost? At first it was simple, the Hunter v.s the Gatherer (obviously the hunter wins) but in this day and age there are so many different jobs and a man’s role is no longer so clearly defined. How is one to choose […]
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Star-crossed Sam

My friend and erstwhile lover Sam, the ‘Self-effacing Antipodean Man’ from New Zealand, has been incommunicado for over a year now. He was seeing a girl closer to where he is working in Europe, so I did the noble thing. I left him alone whilst I pursued other interests. Sam is suddenly back in contact, […]
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5 Untold Reasons Why Men Crave Older Lovers

I read an article in last weekend’s Sunday Times about cougars in France, noting that the new economy minister (aged 36) is married to a 56 year old. The piece suggests that such couples are becoming a bit of a social phenomenon there, with 20% of first time brides in 2012 being older than their […]
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Love and the gambit

Rise in toyboy divorces: bad judgement or just bad luck?

A law firm notes a rise in toyboy husbands filing for divorce; is it ‘game over’ for the cougar wife? It can feel like a modern-day rite of passage for a younger man to date an ‘older woman’.   Sometimes it’s born of curiosity; is it really true that cougars have higher sex drives and are […]
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The pursuit of pleasure – do we deserve great sex?

Many of us believe that we live in a time in which we are sexually liberated. Unlike generations before us, we have easy access to contraception; and it’s no longer taboo to have sex outside of marriage. Sexual imagery pierces every form of media that we are exposed to. In the age of reality TV, […]
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Faking It: Why We Lie About The Big ‘O’

We have all had those presents at Christmas, usually in the form of woollen knitwear, where we thank the elderly relative with a forced smile, and a line along the lines of ‘It’s just what I always wanted!’   Little white lies help protect the feelings of the people we love, but what about lying […]
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The Half-Age + 7 Rule: Who Decides The Age of Our Partners?

“You can’t date him; he’s young enough to be your son!”   “Mate, she’s like twice your age – you’re such an OAPaedo.”     The above quotes reflect society’s age norms when it comes to dating and relationships. We generally consider it acceptable for a man to date a woman younger than himself; but, […]
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What a London Girl Really Wants

Samuel Johnson said that a man who is tired of London is tired of life, for there is in London all that life can afford. And he was right. London has everything a man could possibly want; including thousands of eligible single women. The trouble is, that despite living in a city populated with more […]
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Monogamy

Many Loves: An Alternative Loving Lifestyle

Monogamy may be an ideal system for many, but some people cannot or have no wish to commit to a pair-bond for life. Perhaps it is time for people to debate this issue honestly. Perhaps individuals should challenge the norm, to create and develop new ways of loving with integrity which suit them and their […]
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Many Loves: Can Polyamory Be The New Normal?

Many Loves: An Alternative Loving Lifestyle? In the 21st century Western world, the establishment of Monogamy, one man partnered with one woman for life remains a social and religious construction which is still widely assumed to be the ideal and only valid relationship model for society.  Our culture, legal system and familial structures are predicated […]
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