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Okay, lets be honest here: what’s the first thing that runs through your mind when you meet someone? Is it ‘I wonder if he can cook?’ or ‘I wonder if he likes gardening?’ Of course it bloody well isn’t, everyone of us is guilty of looking at our dates and wondering: What they look like […]
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For years there’s always been debate around the ‘three date rule’, before actually going to bed with someone. But times change, people change and what was then, isn’t necessarily now! There have always been double standards – if a man goes around sleeping with as many women as he can manage, he’s considered a real […]
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It’s time to divulge your naughty secrets, c’mon now don’t be shy. Toyboy Warehouse Secrets  Toyboy Warehouse Secrets lets you post your dating experiences, sexy stories and relationship nightmares totally anonymously. Did you just have a date from Hell? How about a date to remember? Whether you’ve found love, lust or romance, use Toyboy Warehouse […]
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Sex toys have always been a fascinating subject. Whether you love them or hate them they are often a topic that gets mixed reactions from both sexes. They are not a new idea in Victorian times doctors used a crude type of vibrator to relieve woman of what they called their hysteria!  This wonderful instrument […]
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Not everyone’s right for us. Can you take rejection gracefully? One of the good things about growing older and feeling more comfortable in one’s own skin is discovering the ability to say no. Many of us ladies have been taught to be people-pleasers from the year dot; do you want to be loved, little girl? […]
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Tackling the age old question of size versus performance is always a bit of a minefield. As a woman I can only speak from the perspective of being on the receiving end and as their appendage is a man’s pride and joy you have to bear in mind that any criticism will really get them […]
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I blame Anne Bancroft. There she was, looking like a sexually sublime schoolmistress in The Graduate, asking the gauche Dustin Hoffman “Would you like me to seduce you?”, and the die was cast. All older woman can teach younger men how to become better in bed, a fact which arrives in the post along with […]
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In the last few weeks, the Twittersphere was all a flutter with the story of a dating blogger who was slammed by a troll who accused our heroine of being the reason that men to expect sex on the first date.   Some women, like myself, hope to have sex on the first date if that […]
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