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So you have spent time trawling Toyboy Warehouse looking for that one person whose profile pics get your heart beat racing and whose bio has your tongue tripping lovingly over each syllable. Great news: you already know they’re single! All that’s left to do is send a message and say hello. Well… urm, now what? A whole […]
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A teacher at my primary school once held up a boring looking copy of The Hobbit, and said ‘Don’t judge a book by it’s cover.’ It was a few more years before I could remain interested in any literature with less pictures than The Beano, but after reading The Hobbit I realised that my boring teacher had said something worth […]
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Older woman dating
I remember once having a discussion with a friend on this point and stating the very obvious. If he dated an older lady with a well-established, lucrative career, he had to expect that she would probably earn more than him and enjoy a better lifestyle. Not only that, but she would have worked really hard […]
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Older woman dating
I’ve been going over my favourite music as background to thinking about a fun playlist aimed at younger men who fancy older women and vice-versa.  A few years back, a song entitled ‘Miss Independent ‘was released by the singer Ne-Yo.  You may remember it. The lyrics were co-written by three men, Tor Erik Hermansen, Mikkel Eriksen and Shaffer Smith. Now […]
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Older woman dating
The way we represent ourselves online has been revolutionized by selfie-mania (it’s even sometimes considered an addiction now). However much you’ve embraced it, there are some solid bits of advice you can consider when choosing that all-important profile picture.   Make It You… A picture says a thousand words, and we’ve given you chance to […]
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Older woman dating
Psycho behaviour after a date or two, that endless texting, phoning, emailing with questions, or stalking on Twitter or FB is a girl thing right? The sort of thing that happens when the hormones get involved or a crush isn’t returned or a passionate weekend suddenly doesn’t have a follow up and hurt feelings turn […]
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Older woman dating
‘Karma’ is not really it, the word for this practice in South Asian culture is ‘nazar’ (in Urdu), which means ‘sight’ but culturally, it’s known as the ‘evil eye.’  Do not pretend like you are not scared, this happens in real life.  It has been passed down from century-old civilisations.  A modern-day prime example includes any […]
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Older woman dating
Where I live, it’s really lovely to see sunshine, flowers in bloom or bud, and birds courting and nesting. New growth and new life is on the way: it’s an exciting time. Yes, the first signs of spring have arrived and I’m really enjoying watching them this year. So, is it also time for a […]
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Older woman dating
30 Days of Blogs culminated yesterday and what an incredible month we have shared through insightful and entertaining blogs. Some of these were informed by scientific fact, and some by tried and tested experience. However, what each shares at the core is a message that challenges the way we view dating. If you didn’t read […]
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Older woman understanding toyboys
“Attraction is not an option.” Neil Strauss   In 2004 a US writer, published a book entitled “The Game – Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists”.  Neil Strauss was a self confessed ‘nerd’ and ‘useless’ when it came to talking with and attracting women.  He became a music journalist because he figured that finally […]
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