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Strong cougar flexes arm in front of younger man

Sex-Role Reversal

Women can wear trousers in a relationship, and men can do the same. But in bed, it doesn’t matter what clothes you wear, just so long as they’re strewn about the room. With men and women on more equal footing (or bedding), what happens to the archetypes of men and women in a modern day […]
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Toyboy flirting with older woman in park

How To Flirt With Younger Men

I’ve just returned from a ramble around my local bird reserve. Desperate for some peace and solitude, I went alone and there were only a handful of bird-watchers and two lone men walking their dogs on leashes as permitted in certain areas. Sitting at the observation deck by one of the lakes, watching the birds […]
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Spotting an unfaithful toyboy

5 Signs He Still Wants His Ex

So you think you may have found Mr. Right…or at least “Mr Right Now”.  It’s sunshine, smiles, snuggles and lots of other things beginning with “s”, all the way… You like him, he likes you, and the chemistry is so intense it could power the National Grid. Your friends – and even your family – […]
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Keeping it casual in toyboy and cougar relationships

Keeping It Casual

With all the literature surrounding dating, several questions often get overlooked or are only given uncomfortable lip service by the average Joe-public.   Is it okay to date multiple people at the same time?   If it is, how many should you date?   These questions often come to the fore of my mind when […]
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First date nerves dating older women

When Dating Older Women, Nerves Aren’t Always Bad

It’s amazing how simple things can affect your nerves, and dating older women is no different. For example, without discussing what my job is, it requires me to be fairly confident. It is fair to say that when I first started I was a bit nervous but since then it has become second nature which […]
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cosmetic surgery is often associated with cougars

The Perfect Model

Take a walk, pick up a magazine, or browse the internet. Consciously or not, your eyes will have skimmed over at least five advertisements showing something you need in your life. Ideas about who we are and who we should be are scattered everywhere and can be particularly disruptive in a community often associated with […]
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Romantic meeting

Sam-I-Am

In this blog, I wish to introduce my delightful ‘Sam’ to you in preparation for a variety of odd and hilarious situations we have encountered together. We met via an online dating site years ago, we developed  a surprising friendship and we have kept in touch intermittently ever since. Sam is not his real name, […]
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Self-adoration

When Looking in the Mirror…

Let’s get one thing straight … you ain’t no supermodel. In comparison with the average woman you probably come, well, average. I doubt your face is totally symmetrical or that you are totally cellulite free. You could have one boob bigger than the other and a slightly wider jaw than is deemed delicate on a […]
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Dating advice for women and younger men

9 Rules for Dating Younger Men

So you’re a “cougar”. Pretty cool, right? I mean, Demi Moore did it (and yeah, it didn’t work out well with Ashton, but it happens). Still, the whole world watched in awe as a hot older woman managed to snag a younger, sexy bachelor. Since then, older women dating younger men has headed toward the “mainstream” […]
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Older woman dating

Sexy Foods For a Great Date

They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, but who doesn’t appreciate the taste bud stimulation caused by mouth-wateringly good food? The wrong type of food can leave you bloated and not feeling sexy, or worse – gassy. Don’t get caught out, if you aim to get anywhere near your date’s […]
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