5 Untold Reasons Why Men Crave Older Lovers

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I read an article in last weekend’s Sunday Times about cougars in France, noting that the new economy minister (aged 36) is married to a 56 year old. The piece suggests that such couples are becoming a bit of a social phenomenon there, with 20% of first time brides in 2012 being older than their […]
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Love and the gambit
A law firm notes a rise in toyboy husbands filing for divorce; is it ‘game over’ for the cougar wife? It can feel like a modern-day rite of passage for a younger man to date an ‘older woman’.   Sometimes it’s born of curiosity; is it really true that cougars have higher sex drives and are […]
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Playful hand touching abdomen
Many of us believe that we live in a time in which we are sexually liberated. Unlike generations before us, we have easy access to contraception; and it’s no longer taboo to have sex outside of marriage. Sexual imagery pierces every form of media that we are exposed to. In the age of reality TV, […]
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We have all had those presents at Christmas, usually in the form of woollen knitwear, where we thank the elderly relative with a forced smile, and a line along the lines of ‘It’s just what I always wanted!’   Little white lies help protect the feelings of the people we love, but what about lying […]
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Couple
“You can’t date him; he’s young enough to be your son!”   “Mate, she’s like twice your age – you’re such an OAPaedo.”     The above quotes reflect society’s age norms when it comes to dating and relationships. We generally consider it acceptable for a man to date a woman younger than himself; but, […]
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London eye
Samuel Johnson said that a man who is tired of London is tired of life, for there is in London all that life can afford. And he was right. London has everything a man could possibly want; including thousands of eligible single women. The trouble is, that despite living in a city populated with more […]
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Cougar and Toyboy Love
The latest generation of older women are truly irresistible to all the hot younger men lined up to date them. Praised for their success, beauty and intellect, they’re more sexy and seductive than ever before. So what is the secret that’s making young men go crazy? We’re about to reveal it to you, but don’t […]
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There’s different strokes for different folks, and some folks like strokes that other folks see as jokes. We all know what turns us on personally, but sharing what turns us on with someone else can be very intimidating. Letting people in to a personal part of ourselves can be scary, what if they don’t like […]
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toyboy
I have been asked many times “Why do you date younger men?” and still I find the question incredulous! After being married twice and sticking to the conventional path like a Stepford Wife,  I found myself alone! single! and fifty! I was in a very bad place, asking myself over and over, “who would want […]
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Between the sheets or under the cover, everyone wants to be (or be with) a sexy, better, lover.   But most of today’s sex education comes in the form of porn. With its pneumatic leading ladies (and men wielding equally pneumatically-pumping penises), it’s like trying to learn how to drive a car from watching The […]
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