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No sex after 50? No thanks!

Being a sexually-active woman can be tough. Objectified and subjected to uninvited opinion, and then you hit 50 and you’re both invisible and officially too old for sex.   Yes, 50. Yes, officially. In Portugal, if you’re a woman over the age of 50 and have had children, your sex life is now over. Please pick […]
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It’ll Never Last… Or Will It?

It Will Never Last! This is one of the commonest responses to the reality of a man having any kind of relationship with a considerably older woman. In November 2014, I was watching the news and a piece with the wonderful Gillian Lynne DBE was featured. This lady (and she is a lady), who can […]
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How To End a Casual Relationship

Casual relationships are that awkward beginning to seeing each other, a strange term that has seems to be frequented by the younger generation. It’s a small collection of words that allows you to not be held down by the relationship yet, the easiest way to describe it is as seeing how things go.  But when it’s […]
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Wants and Needs: What really makes a relationship work?

At times, that which we desire can differ from that which we are truly looking for. We may envision the perfect partner to be tall, muscular and handsome, yet the reality of the situation is often an entirely different matter. Truth be told, we can be blinded by characteristics we believe a potential partner shouts […]
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6 Reasons Why You Haven’t Met The ONE Yet

Hello Ladies, Do you fall into the Bridget Jones category? Are you single and looking for more than one night? You’re looking for that other half who will be your match until the day you die? Looking but not finding… why is that?   Often the media labels women between 30-45 to be ‘husband hunters’ […]
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What is the sexiest occupation for men?

It has been an on-going battle through the ages, who rules the sexual roost? At first it was simple, the Hunter v.s the Gatherer (obviously the hunter wins) but in this day and age there are so many different jobs and a man’s role is no longer so clearly defined. How is one to choose […]
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Star-crossed Sam

My friend and erstwhile lover Sam, the ‘Self-effacing Antipodean Man’ from New Zealand, has been incommunicado for over a year now. He was seeing a girl closer to where he is working in Europe, so I did the noble thing. I left him alone whilst I pursued other interests. Sam is suddenly back in contact, […]
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5 Untold Reasons Why Men Crave Older Lovers

I read an article in last weekend’s Sunday Times about cougars in France, noting that the new economy minister (aged 36) is married to a 56 year old. The piece suggests that such couples are becoming a bit of a social phenomenon there, with 20% of first time brides in 2012 being older than their […]
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Rise in toyboy divorces: bad judgement or just bad luck?

A law firm notes a rise in toyboy husbands filing for divorce; is it ‘game over’ for the cougar wife? It can feel like a modern-day rite of passage for a younger man to date an ‘older woman’.   Sometimes it’s born of curiosity; is it really true that cougars have higher sex drives and are […]
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