Ask Gaynor⎢What do older women find attractive about younger men? Is it all sex?

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Online messaging doesn’t count as talking. In the growing technological world more and more people spend most of their time talking through via text. Not so much as a phone call now but a text. Texts are easier, faster and cheaper but not so useful for full blown conversations. Especially with newly blossoming romantic interests […]
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Okay, hands up, I have been married twice. In my defence both were for considerable lengths of time and both were very faithful partnerships. Unfortunately both ended irreconcilably. So I found myself having to start over again, which was an extremely daunting prospect. I knew I would eventually need to muster the confidence to go […]
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Passionate kissing
In the last few weeks, the Twittersphere was all a flutter with the story of a dating blogger who was slammed by a troll who accused our heroine of being the reason that men to expect sex on the first date.   Some women, like myself, hope to have sex on the first date if that […]
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I got asked the eternal question again last week! What do you get out of dating toyboys? The question often posed by a seemingly happily married female, with that my life-is-better-than-yours smugness that seems to go with the territory always infuriates me! It is often followed by the other platitude… “Don’t you want to meet someone?”  The someone […]
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[wdpv_vote] You can vote here! I didn’t always want to date toyboys. In fact, after my marriage broke down, inviting attention from younger men was the last thing on my mind… After my divorce, I felt lumpy, bereft, and worthless. But for the sake of the outside world I was consumed with keeping up appearances. […]
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Toyboy Warehouse - Why I'll Never Date a Younger Woman Again
[wdpv_vote] You can vote here! It was my first date with an older woman and I was bricking it. I could feel beads of sweat forming at my temples as I waited at our table and I looked around the restaurant nervously trying to see if I could recognise her coming in. My thoughts got […]
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Want the woman to be in charge? Yep, there’s a name for that. Sometimes the briefest acronym can open up a whole new world you never knew existed. I recently checked out a guy’s profile. It was clear that he was making an effort to describe who he was and what he was looking for, […]
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