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My Cougar Confession

In the nine months or so I’ve been on Toyboy Warehouse I’ve told only a handful of friends about it (including my two grown-up kids).  I kind of knew all along what was holding me back, sniffing the possibility of disapproval in the air; the judgement of those who believe I should live by the creed of what they think a […]
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The Irrelevance of Age in Modern Dating

A recent article from Stylist.com, discussing the results of a survey carried out by another dating site, suggests that women will go no lower than four years and nine months below their own age. Similarly, men were rarely interested in partners more than four years and ten months older than they are. It strikes me as […]
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5 Secrets About Toyboys

Did you know that dating a toyboy is a fast-acting cure for the common cold? Or perhaps that the scientist that discovered electricity had a thing for older women? OK these things aren’t strictly true but there are some serious benefits to dating younger men that you shouldn’t wait any longer to enjoy.   1. […]
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8 Signs You’re Secretly a Cougar

We’ve all been there, a hot younger man appears and with him an instant smile across your face. Is it just a one-off or should you go younger for good? Compare yourself to this list of signs you’re in fact a cougar and I’ll let you decide…   1. You don’t ‘feel your age’ ‘Age […]
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What Do You Call Friends You Sleep With?

Recently I’ve been enjoying the adult company of a couple of friends. And having interesting conversations about the definition of friendship. I had gotten into a stupendously frustrating argument with an older man about my friends, or rather, my lovers (his word, not mine). He kept insisting that my having two lovers was going to lead to […]
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Wendy: “How toyboy dating changed me”

So here it is! The final video in our interview series with Wendy Salisbury, renowned toyboy dater and author So Wendy has let us in on the exciting and varied toyboy dating experiences that she’s had, but in this video we ask ‘how has toyboy dating changed you?’. Wendy lifestyle may be considered ‘outside the […]
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Wendy: “The story of my daughter’s ex”

It’s the seventh episode in our weekly video series with author Wendy Salisbury. In this episode Wendy tells us an exciting story about her daughter, her daughter’s ex and herself. A really saucy tale you can’t miss. We start this story with a set of fortunate circumstances, including a daughter who’s just went off to […]
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Wendy: “The Toyboy Diaries”

The sixth video in our weekly series features Wendy Salisbury telling us how she came to write the successful “The Toyboy Diaries” Wendy’s dating life has always been… interesting. It would’ve been a shame if the general public never had a chance to hear these exciting experiences. Luckily Wendy wrote two sets of memoirs called […]
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Why it’s fine to ‘look your age’

Apparently, I really don’t look my age. This is a comment I’ve been receiving a great deal over the past couple of months. At first I was flattered, but now I’m becoming slightly irritated by it. In a few months, I will be 55. It doesn’t bother me, the age. Everyone ages, like it or […]
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Wendy Salisbury discussing the benefits of toyboy dating

Wendy: What are the benefits of toyboy dating?

It’s the fifth video with Wendy Salisbury, she tells us the benefits of toyboy dating Why should you join toyboy dating? Wendy will tell us the positives and negatives of this mysterious dating world.        “Life is so much more freer now” Toyboy dating is exciting, it boosts your self-esteem, it’s flattery. There […]
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