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Uniqueness
Some people really relish a challenge, don’t they? It’s vitally important to them how others see them and to be bang on-trend. They have to have the latest gadget, music, slang style of speaking, accessory, pet, baby or partner. Whatever the latest ‘A-Z-list’ celebrities do, that’s what they’ll copy. They are like, really sick totes […]
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Mark restuccia online dating tips
So you want to know all about Internet dating eh? Well you’ve come to the right place. I’m Mark Restuccia – a world class expert in the field. I used to be the most prolific internet dater in my weight class, so I think it’s about time I offered you my top ten tips on […]
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Strong cougar flexes arm in front of younger man
Women can wear trousers in a relationship, and men can do the same. But in bed, it doesn’t matter what clothes you wear, just so long as they’re strewn about the room. With men and women on more equal footing (or bedding), what happens to the archetypes of men and women in a modern day […]
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Toyboy flirting with older woman in park
I’ve just returned from a ramble around my local bird reserve. Desperate for some peace and solitude, I went alone and there were only a handful of bird-watchers and two lone men walking their dogs on leashes as permitted in certain areas. Sitting at the observation deck by one of the lakes, watching the birds […]
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Spotting an unfaithful toyboy
So you think you may have found Mr. Right…or at least “Mr Right Now”.  It’s sunshine, smiles, snuggles and lots of other things beginning with “s”, all the way… You like him, he likes you, and the chemistry is so intense it could power the National Grid. Your friends – and even your family – […]
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Keeping it casual in toyboy and cougar relationships
With all the literature surrounding dating, several questions often get overlooked or are only given uncomfortable lip service by the average Joe-public.   Is it okay to date multiple people at the same time?   If it is, how many should you date?   These questions often come to the fore of my mind when […]
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Shameful toyboy errors
So you’ve signed up, uploaded a couple of photos and written a few lines about your hobbies. That’s all a toyboy has to do to watch the date offers roll in, right? Wrong. If you’re new to the online dating game or not having much luck, check the following advice and avoid making some of […]
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First date nerves dating older women
It’s amazing how simple things can affect your nerves, and dating older women is no different. For example, without discussing what my job is, it requires me to be fairly confident. It is fair to say that when I first started I was a bit nervous but since then it has become second nature which […]
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cosmetic surgery is often associated with cougars
Take a walk, pick up a magazine, or browse the internet. Consciously or not, your eyes will have skimmed over at least five advertisements showing something you need in your life. Ideas about who we are and who we should be are scattered everywhere and can be particularly disruptive in a community often associated with […]
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Online dating, writing a first message
After recently flirting with the world of online dating and gaining some experience of what it’s all about, I have observed similar patterns occurring in the way men approach women with that all-important first message. I thought it was supposed to be a question of first impressions and making them count. So why is it […]
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