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Ask Tanya | ‘I’m just not interested anymore…’

The idea of a dating site is to meet new and interesting people, which will hopefully then lead to the one you really want – but how do you let down the ones that are interested in you when you’re not interested in them? Its never an easy thing to do, unless you’re a cold […]
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‘Ghosting’: What it is and how to deal with it?

What’s more nerve-wracking than organising the first date, the fear of being ghosted afterwards! 👻 Gaynor’s back and answering another of your questions. This week she’s talking all about the online dating phenomenon ‘ghosting’ and how it’s not your fault! Discover more about what ghosting is, who’s doing it and why you shouldn’t be taking it personally […]
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Ask Tanya | True or False: Dating Profiles

  Over the last couple of weeks I’ve taken time to look over many online dating profiles, to see what the guys are looking for (just as much as the women) and I’ve been surprised by some, which I thought I’d share with you We’ve discussed a number of aspects in terms of age-gap dating […]
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The Top Traits 40-Year-Old Men Look for in Women

Many people consider their 40s to be their favourite decade of life. After all, by the time the big four-oh rolls around, you have a lot of things figured out. Gone are the days when you insisted on being up with the trends. Cerebral pursuits are now your game. You’re probably more mature, much wiser, […]
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How Casual Sex Can Lead to Love

It’s easy to think ‘casual sex cannot lead to love’, but that’s exactly what happened to me in 2014. I had been dating for nearly 3 years since breaking up with my girlfriend in 2011. Having a serious relationship was something I just wasn’t interested in during that period. But not having a girlfriend meant […]
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Ask Gaynor⎜’What makes a perfect dating profile?’

We’re back with a brand new episode of ‘Ask the Experts’! In this latest episode, Gaynor will be sharing her pearls of wisdom and giving you her top tips to creating the perfect online dating profile. From uploading the perfect pictures to reflect your personality, to getting started on what to add to your about […]
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Ask Tanya | Holy or Horny?

Okay, lets be honest here: what’s the first thing that runs through your mind when you meet someone? Is it ‘I wonder if he can cook?’ or ‘I wonder if he likes gardening?’ Of course it bloody well isn’t, everyone of us is guilty of looking at our dates and wondering: What they look like […]
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Ask Tanya | Are Women More In Control?

For years there’s always been debate around the ‘three date rule’, before actually going to bed with someone. But times change, people change and what was then, isn’t necessarily now! There have always been double standards – if a man goes around sleeping with as many women as he can manage, he’s considered a real […]
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Ask Tanya | No sex please, We’re old.

Over the years I have heard and experienced the breakup of many friends and colleagues. When asked the reasons why – aside from the usual compatibility or ‘growing apart’ issues; at some point sex has played a part. Reasons range from partners going off sex, unable to keep up with his demands, to just becoming […]
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