Keeping It Casual

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Keeping it casual in toyboy and cougar relationships
With all the literature surrounding dating, several questions often get overlooked or are only given uncomfortable lip service by the average Joe-public.   Is it okay to date multiple people at the same time?   If it is, how many should you date?   These questions often come to the fore of my mind when […]
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Romantic meeting
In this blog, I wish to introduce my delightful ‘Sam’ to you in preparation for a variety of odd and hilarious situations we have encountered together. We met via an online dating site years ago, we developed  a surprising friendship and we have kept in touch intermittently ever since. Sam is not his real name, […]
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Playing footsie under the table
Ladies sit with their legs crossed, gentlemen sit with their legs akimbo. If you’re not entirely sure why, then you may be too young to have access to the internet. As much fun as sexual equality sounds, there are physiological differences between females and males that neither can naturally ignore. As a child there are more important […]
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Dating advice for women and younger men
So you’re a “cougar”. Pretty cool, right? I mean, Demi Moore did it (and yeah, it didn’t work out well with Ashton, but it happens). Still, the whole world watched in awe as a hot older woman managed to snag a younger, sexy bachelor. Since then, older women dating younger men has headed toward the “mainstream” […]
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Older woman dating
They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, but who doesn’t appreciate the taste bud stimulation caused by mouth-wateringly good food? The wrong type of food can leave you bloated and not feeling sexy, or worse – gassy. Don’t get caught out, if you aim to get anywhere near your date’s […]
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Older woman dating
30 Days of Blogs culminated yesterday and what an incredible month we have shared through insightful and entertaining blogs. Some of these were informed by scientific fact, and some by tried and tested experience. However, what each shares at the core is a message that challenges the way we view dating. If you didn’t read […]
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Toyboy dating
There are few situations that provide such an erotic frisson as a liaison between a younger man and an older woman. This concept is not a modern one: think of the French author Colette’s series of short stories about the characters Cheriand his mistress Lea, who enjoyed such a relationship over some ten years, despite a thirty-year age gap. There […]
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Toyboy dating
The great thing about 2014 for a woman is all those boy/men with their abs and their T shirts off.  When I was 20, it just didn’t happen, there wasn’t this overriding culture of body perfection that we have around us now. Not that my younger boy friends have all been bench pressers, far from […]
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I’m new to internet dating and, if I am being completely honest, I have always been a little skeptical about the whole idea of finding love online. I used to joke with my mates about nerds glued to the glare of a computer screen all weekend whilst the rest of us were out getting laid. […]
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Toyboy dating
I’ve been meeting up recently with a number of female friends in their late forties and fifties and a theme seems to be emerging from the lives of the newly single: a journey deeper into self, including sexuality. These are women who were married or entered long time partnerships as long ago as the 1980’s […]
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