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The Girl’s Guide To Date Preparation

FIRST dates are big, scary and unpredictable. Think job interview, only more personal if you’re rejected for the role. As it’s so intimidating, all that’s left to do is hide in a corner and pretend it’s not going to happen, right? Stop right there. As with all things challenging, taking a few simple but important […]
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My Cougar Confession

In the nine months or so I’ve been on Toyboy Warehouse I’ve told only a handful of friends about it (including my two grown-up kids).  I kind of knew all along what was holding me back, sniffing the possibility of disapproval in the air; the judgement of those who believe I should live by the creed of what they think a […]
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The Irrelevance of Age in Modern Dating

A recent article from Stylist.com, discussing the results of a survey carried out by another dating site, suggests that women will go no lower than four years and nine months below their own age. Similarly, men were rarely interested in partners more than four years and ten months older than they are. It strikes me as […]
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Does Size Really Matter?

I’ve been pondering this since I’d started dating again: does size really matter? Now, I’m not limiting this to just penises, but the whole package. If asked what kind of man I go for, I’d shrug and say I don’t really have a type. So long as our minds connect, I don’t care what you […]
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Age-Gap Dating: Fixed or flexible?

I hear from other women who date younger men that they often stay attracted to a particular age group, and this whole issue of attraction renders me curious. I’m fairly fixed in my habit of dating younger men, and have pretty well accepted that, as it’s been the case for almost 20 years now. Personally, […]
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Halloween: Sex Magick

As we approach All Hallow’s Eve and the witching hour, I thought I would reflect upon an ancient concept, one which although archaic, is is still held sacred by some today. Sex Magic (or Magick) however it may be spelled, is the idea that there is a special power attached to the primal sex drive […]
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5 Secrets About Toyboys

Did you know that dating a toyboy is a fast-acting cure for the common cold? Or perhaps that the scientist that discovered electricity had a thing for older women? OK these things aren’t strictly true but there are some serious benefits to dating younger men that you shouldn’t wait any longer to enjoy.   1. […]
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What Do You Call Friends You Sleep With?

Recently I’ve been enjoying the adult company of a couple of friends. And having interesting conversations about the definition of friendship. I had gotten into a stupendously frustrating argument with an older man about my friends, or rather, my lovers (his word, not mine). He kept insisting that my having two lovers was going to lead to […]
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