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What Do You Call Friends You Sleep With?

Recently I’ve been enjoying the adult company of a couple of friends. And having interesting conversations about the definition of friendship. I had gotten into a stupendously frustrating argument with an older man about my friends, or rather, my lovers (his word, not mine). He kept insisting that my having two lovers was going to lead to […]
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Toyboy Warehouse - Six Cheap Date Ideas

6 Money-Saving Date Ideas

So providing that despite embarrassing yourself and probably drinking too much on that first date, you’ve managed to seal a second rendezvous with your toyboy or cougar. Now is your chance to let your date know the ‘real’ you and not the fumbling, stuttering person that you first came across as. To help escape those […]
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Couple

The Half-Age + 7 Rule: Who Decides The Age of Our Partners?

“You can’t date him; he’s young enough to be your son!”   “Mate, she’s like twice your age – you’re such an OAPaedo.”     The above quotes reflect society’s age norms when it comes to dating and relationships. We generally consider it acceptable for a man to date a woman younger than himself; but, […]
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Getting Freaky: The 5 Oddest Fetishes

There’s different strokes for different folks, and some folks like strokes that other folks see as jokes. We all know what turns us on personally, but sharing what turns us on with someone else can be very intimidating. Letting people in to a personal part of ourselves can be scary, what if they don’t like […]
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The Four Posts You Need To Be a Better Lover

Between the sheets or under the cover, everyone wants to be (or be with) a sexy, better, lover.   But most of today’s sex education comes in the form of porn. With its pneumatic leading ladies (and men wielding equally pneumatically-pumping penises), it’s like trying to learn how to drive a car from watching The […]
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Phone sex

How To Talk Dirty

Talking to people is easy enough, but in the bedroom things tend to get a little harder, or at least they can be with the right dirty talk… Yes, mouths can be used for other than foreplay in the bedroom, with equally stimulating results. Dirty talk can help break tension whilst maintaining and even increasing […]
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Tamsa New Zealand

Sam and Floral Sex

Currently in my thoughts is my Self-effacing Antipodean Man, known henceforth as ‘Sam’, who hails from the Land of the Long White Cloud, Aorateroa, otherwise known as New Zealand… Sam is currently engaged in his “Overseas Experience”, when natives of his home migrate abroad, only returning decades later to reproduce. Like some gentle semi-domesticated wild […]
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Toying Around: A History of Adult Play

Adult sex toys, they come in all shapes and sizes: ‘Neck’ massagers, Love Beads, Love Bullets, Vibrating Eggs, Dildos, Wands, and, of course, the Rampant Rabbit. For women, the list is as long and as varied as your imagination can stretch. Whereas men get sexual gratification alone from anything close to hand, or if they’re […]
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The joy of dating younger men

In Praise of Dating Younger Men

We’ve featured a few articles in the past about the positive characteristics of dating a cougar, both in terms of her allure and why she will make the best date companion. For this reason, we thought it was about time that we put together something extolling the benefits of dating a younger guy. This is […]
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Polyamory

Do Threesomes Work?

Threesomes are one of those fantasies that are hard to slip into conversations with partners, especially long-term ones. Without prior discussion of a ménage à trios, if a partner says; ‘Hey, look at her/him, don’t they look sexy?’, the reply could be a heated argument followed by a break-up. The problem with adding a third wheel to […]
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