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Dancing in Limbo

You know I’ve fancied ‘older women’ ever since puberty. .. And yes in my younger years I guess the ratio erred towards sexual desire over those other, and supposedly more ‘fulfilling’, aspects that any form of personal relationship is supposed to bring us. Indeed I can tell you that at the age of twenty-six I […]
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Peer Pressure

No… not in the playground… but it feels a little like it.  When I first joined TBW, I kept fairly quiet about it for a while. I’d never dated anyone younger than me before, let alone much younger. I hadn’t been looking for younger; I was led to the site by chance and then was […]
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Men Confess: reasons younger guys fall for older women

Men Confess: 22 reasons why younger guys fall for older women We at TBW HQ came across this insightful article on iVillage recently. 22 reasons, straight from the horse’s mouth, as to why many men prefer older women. Here’s an excerpt: In Older Women, Younger Men: New Options for Love and Romance, authors Felicia Brings […]
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Women and marriage

All The Single Ladies

There was article in last weekend’s Observer about an American woman called Kate Bolick who had written a piece in Atlantic Magazine about the fact that she, approaching 40, might never marry. It caused a stir and a lot of interest (30,000 ‘likes’ on Facebook.) She’s even been approached to turn her story into a […]
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10 Great Things About Dating Older Women

Age gap relationships have been around since time began, the more common being an older man and younger woman, and these are generally pretty well received, unless the difference is insanely vast, or it’s obvious the older man only has the company of his younger woman because of his bank balance. The reverse – older […]
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The Allure of The Cougar

The cougar dating phenomena: What makes a younger man attracted to a cougar? And why does it look like this trend isn’t going to go away? According to science, men shouldn’t really be attracted to older women. Evolution has primed men to fancy the most healthy, fertile women. For ‘healthy and fertile’, science would have […]
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Why I’m Addicted To Cougar Dating…

I have a little secret… It’s not a very interesting secret but it’s a secret never the less. Born out of the necessity of not wanting to deal with the ramifications of people knowing about it because of the society with live in. I find older women attractive – and enjoy cougar dating (see, not really […]
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Pond Life… Moi?

Having just read another article referring to the Blogger ‘Plankton’ and how she finds herself middle-aged, single and apparently at the bottom of sexual food chain, I am again amused and bemused by how she is finding it “out there”. It sounds sad, lonely and bloody awful – and I have to say the complete […]
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Texan Teacher Dates Student

Not so long ago, if a female teacher had been found having a relationship with a pupil in her school she would have been fired immediately. Now perhaps attitudes are changing if people see how both parties can benefit and give each other happiness and support. A recent example of this was reported in Fort […]
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IQ

IQ, MeQ, I like You

We’ve had a few discussions on our forum lately suggesting that we aren’t (here at TBW HQ) high-lighting men’s points of view enough. We’ve always tried to get away from the stereotype of the older woman seeking a younger man and the younger man seeking an older woman, which tends towards a picture of a […]
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