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Is Marriage Going Out of Fashion?

According to the most recent figures from the Office for National Statistics, the married population in the UK is expected to drop to just 41 per cent in 20 years, compared with 49 per cent now. The average groom in Britain is for the first time now the same age as his bride. In the 1960s, […]
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Help: I’m in love with a cougar

I’m in love… with an older woman and I want to impress my lady and I want to make her forget about age – how?” “Being in a cougar relationship with a younger man, this is what worked for me… He was very mature for his age he was level headed,and could carry on a […]
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Bastian Dash

Three Mustered Fears

For all the I say about us chaps being given a break as we head into those years post the supposed toyboy age bracket most of you gals stipulate we should occupy, there are indeed some that do no favours to the cause. I recently met three at a party … Let me first however […]
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Ashton and Demi

Why You Should Date Younger Men

Here are some reasons, according to this article, why women should date younger men: 1. There’s far less baggage. Younger men don’t have the same kind baggage that older men do. You know you’re probably not going to have to worry about an ex-wife and kids with them. Though sometimes younger men think they have […]
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Bastian Dash

Jaded?

Oh dear. Naughty me, I’ve slept with a client again. But I guess if I’m back to playing the game I find easiest to play, that was bound to happen sooner or later. Still how and why and where is not really the tale I want or have to tell…   It’s more about the […]
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Bastian Dash

Fair to Middling

So, I’m thinking. And I’m in bed. And someone nice is asleep beside me who isn’t thinking. She’s possibly dreaming though.  I like her soft sighs; the night’s own tick tock in a quiet room of only digitally displayed hours beside a dormant bedside lamp… Well this is nothing new. I’ve been telling you my […]
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Bastian Dash

Peer Presumption

You know, there’s this really unassuming guy who must work near my building. We crisscross every day on the pavement and have done for ages; although not so much as an acknowledging nod has ever passed between us. Imagine my surprise then when he walked into a west end bar I happened to frequenting with […]
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Bastian Dash

For want of a key…

They say you never forget how to ride a bike…    Mind you I was a late developer on that score; I’m ashamed to say it took me a few formative years longer than I bet it did most of you to kick the stabilizer habit. Still, once I found the guts to finally risk a […]
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KatJG

What are younger men queuing up for?

‘Younger men are queuing up for a cougar to love’ says today’s Independent on Sunday (22.8.10) but the middle-aged American man, Rich Gosse, who has apparently spent 15 years ‘championing older women’ still falls into the age-old, male-dominated society mindset of concluding that women ‘prefer older men’. Well… maybe he thinks that because he’s middle […]
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Coming back to Toyboy Warehouse

Honey, I’m Home!

Yes, I’m back. I always say that I won’t be, that I’m going to do grown-up dating, get a sensible boyfriend and have a ‘proper relationship’. But really I should just sit down and have a cup of tea until the feeling passes… Recently I wondered why it is that I even bother to say […]
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