Close The Gap – #AskGaynor

Get the latest from the blog:

Recent Articles

Close The Gap – #AskGaynor

When I first joined ToyboyWarehouse.com  ten years ago, I was not only newly single at nearly fifty and bloody terrified,  I didn’t have a clue about dating websites. I decided that as I was not looking for anything too serious and needing to have some fun I would sign up. I liked the sound of […]
Read more
How I Started My Dating Life At Age 62

How I Started My Dating Life At Age 62

How I Started My Dating Life At Age 62 “Now if you told me I’d be going on a first date aged 62, I would’ve thought you were ridiculous. But there I was, meeting this charming man in a town in Southern France. With flowing wine and fireworks, it was as romantic as it could […]
Read more

‘Are we exclusive?’

Wondering whether you’re the only one in his life, but too scared to ask? 💕 Toyboy dating expert, Gaynor is back and answering another of your questions. This time we’re delving into the minefield that is ‘exclusivity’ and Gaynor’s sharing her words of wisdom on when a relationship becomes exclusive and how to broach the […]
Read more
Secrets Header

Have you confessed on Toyboy Warehouse Secrets?

It’s time to divulge your naughty secrets, c’mon now don’t be shy. Toyboy Warehouse Secrets  Toyboy Warehouse Secrets lets you post your dating experiences, sexy stories and relationship nightmares totally anonymously. Did you just have a date from Hell? How about a date to remember? Whether you’ve found love, lust or romance, use Toyboy Warehouse […]
Read more

Toyboy Warehouse Stories: Anna

Okay, hands up, I have been married twice. In my defence both were for considerable lengths of time and both were very faithful partnerships. Unfortunately both ended irreconcilably. So I found myself having to start over again, which was an extremely daunting prospect. I knew I would eventually need to muster the confidence to go […]
Read more
Thumbs down

Can you handle it?

Not everyone’s right for us. Can you take rejection gracefully? One of the good things about growing older and feeling more comfortable in one’s own skin is discovering the ability to say no. Many of us ladies have been taught to be people-pleasers from the year dot; do you want to be loved, little girl? […]
Read more

Older women: a Finishing School for Sex?

I blame Anne Bancroft. There she was, looking like a sexually sublime schoolmistress in The Graduate, asking the gauche Dustin Hoffman “Would you like me to seduce you?”, and the die was cast. All older woman can teach younger men how to become better in bed, a fact which arrives in the post along with […]
Read more

Isn’t he a bit young?

The age of my playmates has never been before a topic of discussion, as in, “Isn’t he a bit young?”. I bring it up now because there was a brief flurry of a discussion on social media about not dating people under 28 as they’re not “serious enough”. The eyebrow went up and the lips […]
Read more

Navigating the Silences

I find online dating one part intriguing and two parts mystifying. Mystifying in that I’m still not sure what the protocol is when it comes to communicating electronically. As one young man exclaimed the other night, “You actually remember a time without the internet!” Yes, young Padawan*, I most certainly do. However, I married very […]
Read more