Sex-Role Reversal

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Strong cougar flexes arm in front of younger man
Women can wear trousers in a relationship, and men can do the same. But in bed, it doesn’t matter what clothes you wear, just so long as they’re strewn about the room. With men and women on more equal footing (or bedding), what happens to the archetypes of men and women in a modern day […]
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Toyboy flirting with older woman in park
I’ve just returned from a ramble around my local bird reserve. Desperate for some peace and solitude, I went alone and there were only a handful of bird-watchers and two lone men walking their dogs on leashes as permitted in certain areas. Sitting at the observation deck by one of the lakes, watching the birds […]
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Spotting an unfaithful toyboy
So you think you may have found Mr. Right…or at least “Mr Right Now”.  It’s sunshine, smiles, snuggles and lots of other things beginning with “s”, all the way… You like him, he likes you, and the chemistry is so intense it could power the National Grid. Your friends – and even your family – […]
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Shameful toyboy errors
So you’ve signed up, uploaded a couple of photos and written a few lines about your hobbies. That’s all a toyboy has to do to watch the date offers roll in, right? Wrong. If you’re new to the online dating game or not having much luck, check the following advice and avoid making some of […]
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cosmetic surgery is often associated with cougars
Take a walk, pick up a magazine, or browse the internet. Consciously or not, your eyes will have skimmed over at least five advertisements showing something you need in your life. Ideas about who we are and who we should be are scattered everywhere and can be particularly disruptive in a community often associated with […]
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Online dating, writing a first message
After recently flirting with the world of online dating and gaining some experience of what it’s all about, I have observed similar patterns occurring in the way men approach women with that all-important first message. I thought it was supposed to be a question of first impressions and making them count. So why is it […]
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Romantic Florence
Long and intense have been the discussions as to how many dates it is reasonable to go on before one sleeps with someone.  Having garnered opinion from both sexes the general consensus appears to be; two dates if you aren’t that bothered about seeing them again but four if you think you would like to […]
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Online dating
A long time ago I realised that sex and women were my prime motivational factors in life. Some people are driven by money, some are driven by fame or recognition, some are driven by power, some are driven by altruism; I am driven by lust. I suppose I was lucky to have made this revelation […]
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Dating advice for women and younger men
So you’re a “cougar”. Pretty cool, right? I mean, Demi Moore did it (and yeah, it didn’t work out well with Ashton, but it happens). Still, the whole world watched in awe as a hot older woman managed to snag a younger, sexy bachelor. Since then, older women dating younger men has headed toward the “mainstream” […]
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Woman with writing on her legs
….wear a mini-skirt? They were the sartorial emblem of freedom for girls in the swinging Sixties and have been a fashion favourite of the young ever since. But now it seems women are happy to bare a lot of leg in a mini-skirt right up to the age of 40 and maybe older. I remember […]
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