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Toyboy dating
It’s hard to believe for some of you, I’m sure, but there was written communication before the invention of the internet and email. No, really. We’d sit down with a pen and a piece of paper, and write what was known as ‘a letter’. It meant we thrilled to the sound of the ‘clunk-click-thump’ of […]
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Toyboy dating
You’re on the site. Your profile’s been buffed and polished with a little help from us. You’ve winked, e-card-ed and exchanged messages with the one who’s caught your eye. Let’s face it; you’re on the verge of a hot date with a lucky lad or lady. Mazel tov! The obvious next step’s an alcoholic drink […]
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Toyboy dating
I was incensed recently when on another ‘regular’ dating website I received a generic email from it’s owner, laying down the law about approaching people on his site that were younger than you. In his ignorance he had used an example of an older man approaching a younger woman (it was as if the reverse […]
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Baby cougar meowing
What do you call a woman over 40 who’s attracted to younger guys? Yup. You’ve got it. ‘Cougar’. I don’t know about ‘birds do it, bees do it’, but it certainly seems that an increasing number of female celebrities are doing it.   From something that once only made the lurid end of the media […]
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Toyboy dating
Whether dating on or offline everyone has their own tricks and techniques to start conversations and build relationships. Some believe it’s a numbers game, some just look at photos, some location whereas others simply will not approach anyone themselves. There is not one formula of how to increase your ‘success rates’, whatever you class ‘success’ […]
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Toyboy dating
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the lessons that life has taught me so far. On the eve of my 45th birthday, I’m certainly not the same person I was twenty years ago. I struggled as a teen and through my 20’s to find my voice and connect to who I was as an […]
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Toyboy dating
Former TBW contributor and “Toyman” About Town Bastian Dash – whom we last heard had set off into the cyber-sunset in search of more tales for his memoirs – has recently released the full account of ‘how it all began’ in his new ebook @lter Ego: If you could change the way you are, would […]
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Toyboy dating
Susan Sarandon doesn’t think she’ll ever marry again. ‘I can’t see the circumstances under which I would,’ she says. Which rather puts the kibosh on stories that the 66-year-old film star is about to wed her boyfriend, Jonathan Bricklin. They’ve been ‘collaborating’ (Susan doesn’t like the word ‘dating’) for three years, since she became 36-year-old […]
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Cougar Robin Wright and toyboy lover
Robin Wright, 46, has become the latest thing in cougar dating as she is now seeing Ben Foster, 32, who she met on a film. The pair starred together in the film Rampart and he joined her in Australia earlier this year while she was filming The Grandmothers with Naomi Watts. It is understood to […]
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