When Dating Older Women, Nerves Aren’t Always Bad

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When Dating Older Women, Nerves Aren’t Always Bad

It’s amazing how simple things can affect your nerves, and dating older women is no different. For example, without discussing what my job is, it requires me to be fairly confident. It is fair to say that when I first started I was a bit nervous but since then it has become second nature which […]
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cosmetic surgery is often associated with cougars

The Perfect Model

Take a walk, pick up a magazine, or browse the internet. Consciously or not, your eyes will have skimmed over at least five advertisements showing something you need in your life. Ideas about who we are and who we should be are scattered everywhere and can be particularly disruptive in a community often associated with […]
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First Message Faux Pas

After recently flirting with the world of online dating and gaining some experience of what it’s all about, I have observed similar patterns occurring in the way men approach women with that all-important first message. I thought it was supposed to be a question of first impressions and making them count. So why is it […]
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Personality Before Age

Although older women dating younger men has been going on for centuries, it’s not been mainstream in any capacity. Shakespeare was with a women 8 years his senior, the prophet Mohammed with one 15 years his senior. These are high profile examples, obviously, but these relationships are woven throughout history. However, the recent surge in […]
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The Numbers Game

A long time ago I realised that sex and women were my prime motivational factors in life. Some people are driven by money, some are driven by fame or recognition, some are driven by power, some are driven by altruism; I am driven by lust. I suppose I was lucky to have made this revelation […]
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Demystifying The Signs of Attraction

Ladies sit with their legs crossed, gentlemen sit with their legs akimbo. If you’re not entirely sure why, then you may be too young to have access to the internet. As much fun as sexual equality sounds, there are physiological differences between females and males that neither can naturally ignore. As a child there are more important […]
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9 Rules for Dating Younger Men

So you’re a “cougar”. Pretty cool, right? I mean, Demi Moore did it (and yeah, it didn’t work out well with Ashton, but it happens). Still, the whole world watched in awe as a hot older woman managed to snag a younger, sexy bachelor. Since then, older women dating younger men has headed toward the “mainstream” […]
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Top Tips Going In For The Kiss

Whether you’re a toyboy dating older women, or a cougar dating younger men, your first kiss with a new partner can be a pretty nerve-wracking time. A kissing disaster can indicate a complete lack of chemistry and an amazing kiss can make your attraction unforgettable. Kissing: it’s good for you. Whether you’re twenty two or […]
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Ice-Breaking Over The Internet

So you have spent time trawling Toyboy Warehouse looking for that one person whose profile pics get your heart beat racing and whose bio has your tongue tripping lovingly over each syllable. Great news: you already know they’re single! All that’s left to do is send a message and say hello. Well… urm, now what? A whole […]
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Don’t Judge Books by Their Covers

A teacher at my primary school once held up a boring looking copy of The Hobbit, and said ‘Don’t judge a book by it’s cover.’ It was a few more years before I could remain interested in any literature with less pictures than The Beano, but after reading The Hobbit I realised that my boring teacher had said something worth […]
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