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She’s Turned On!

One cold, wet and windy evening last week, I found myself queueing up in Islington for a talk on Orgasmic Meditation…yes, that combination of words is a bit like Military Intelligence, they don’t sit naturally together. One conveys stillness and the other explosive energy. I was curious to find out more. A few days earlier […]
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Text speech

Gr8? LOL, No date!

We saw this piece in the Metro the other day and had to share it! Bad spelling and the use of abbreviations and acronyms such as ‘gr8’, ‘lol’ and ‘LMAO’ often put off a would-be partner from a second meeting. Double-texting, where another text is sent before getting a reply to the first, and one-word […]
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Age gap love

Age Gap Romances

We at TBW HQ found this great article in the Chicago Tribune last week… Old enough to be his…. Wife “When he moved to Los Angeles, Charlie Capen, 20 at the time, could have joined his friends hitting the clubs. Instead, he fell in love with a woman eight years older, an age difference that […]
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Keeping hush

Zipping It

Recently I was talking to a man about relationships. I occasionally like to confer with the enemy on topics such as this, in order to gain a greater understanding of their species. I was interested to hear his views on the subject. Despite being an open-minded chap, breezy about subjects sexual and seemingly unfazed with […]
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Adopt a man

Adopt a Guy

The French dating website AdopteUnMec.com (Adopt-A-Guy) is set up like a man boutique where women peruse the virtual racks looking for their perfect match. “Special on Carrot-Tops” advertises one online banner. Another alerts “buyers” to a “Total Liquidation of Men with Curly Hair: Everything Must Go.” Now, the company has taken their wares to the […]
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Lone ranger mentality

Attraction of Solitude

Whilst reading through The Economist, we at TBW HQ found an interesting article called The Attraction of Solitude. Following is an excerpt. What are your thoughts on what they say? The Prada-toting protagonists of “Sex and the City”, a once-popular American television show about single thirty-somethings in New York, are unlikely role models for Middle […]
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'Cougar' dating

Reasons Why Women Date Younger Men

Are women who date younger men the new black? More and more women seem to be doing it. The amount of women choosing partners ten years younger than themselves has risen by 25%, according to the ABS. Those that do have become commonly known in pop culture as “cougars”, taking part in cougar dating. Central […]
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Erotic fiction

Sex and the Signposts

TBW’s, gbird has written a book! Here’s a synopsis: When I first realised my second marriage was in big trouble I did my best to mend bridges but was stonewalled at every turn. I was in despair and just could not understand it and in order to deal with all the emotions that were rushing […]
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Superhero men vs reality

The Ideal Man: Superhero or Normal Guy?

We see article after article about what women want in a relationship. What about what men want? An article we found on the Huffington Post has this to say: It’s as if we have been catalogued and written off as a basic 8th grade science project, given a footnote reading: Driven by sex, motivated by […]
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Out of the frying pan

Unexpected Occurrences

I have spent the best part of my adult life mastering the art of being single. It is not something that happens overnight but more a skill that requires intense concentration, a string of bad relationships and the ability to master numerous nights on your own, meals alone, solo cinema trips and, in your mid […]
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