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Ask Tanya | Holy or Horny?

Okay, lets be honest here: what’s the first thing that runs through your mind when you meet someone? Is it ‘I wonder if he can cook?’ or ‘I wonder if he likes gardening?’ Of course it bloody well isn’t, everyone of us is guilty of looking at our dates and wondering: What they look like […]
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Ask Tanya | Are Women More In Control?

For years there’s always been debate around the ‘three date rule’, before actually going to bed with someone. But times change, people change and what was then, isn’t necessarily now! There have always been double standards – if a man goes around sleeping with as many women as he can manage, he’s considered a real […]
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Ask Tanya | No sex please, We’re old.

Over the years I have heard and experienced the breakup of many friends and colleagues. When asked the reasons why – aside from the usual compatibility or ‘growing apart’ issues; at some point sex has played a part. Reasons range from partners going off sex, unable to keep up with his demands, to just becoming […]
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Ask Tanya | Dating Etiquette

Are there do’s and don’t s when it comes to the first date for either man or woman and does it make any difference when it comes to age difference?   Having been asked this question by one of the members, I had to give this some thought as whilst I’ve had first dates I’d […]
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Mono-Poly

Monopoly is one of those games that can make or break relationships. It can seem to go on forever, and the objective of ‘having it all’ can bring out the competitive or defeatist side in all of us. There are so many editions of Monolpoly that even the most hardcore fans of the game can […]
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Mind the Gap

*Thoughts and feelings in this blog below to Toyboy Warehouse guest blogger Gbird* It amuses me no end that whenever a high-profile couple split up the media have a field day sifting through the ashes of their relationship in the minutest detail. Like Carrion Crow they wait perched on high, waiting to fight over the juiciest […]
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Texting

Online messaging doesn’t count as talking. In the growing technological world more and more people spend most of their time talking through via text. Not so much as a phone call now but a text. Texts are easier, faster and cheaper but not so useful for full blown conversations. Especially with newly blossoming romantic interests […]
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How To Know When It’s Time To Call in The Experts

How do you know if you need a love life coach? Read these telltale signs… Throughout our lives we are coached by experts. As children many of us will have joined a club to be coached to play football, dance or sing. Perhaps we had extra coaching for things we found difficult like extra Maths […]
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How Chivalry Will Make or Break Your Relationship

So, you got the girl. Success. Been in a relationship for months. Success. Cohabiting or even getting married. Success. You laid out the foundations of your future, thinking not just about you and your partner, but children too. It all seemed to come together, an idyllic union so cliché that you marvelled at how ridiculously […]
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Ask Tanya | Online Dating – Fear or Fun?

  Remember when first dates came from chatting to someone you’d met in a bar, club or even bumped into down the supermarket and you arranged to meet for the evening? Oh life was so simple then because although the follow up date may have given you butterflies, at least you partly knew what you […]
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