Many Loves: An Alternative Loving Lifestyle

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Monogamy

Many Loves: An Alternative Loving Lifestyle

Monogamy may be an ideal system for many, but some people cannot or have no wish to commit to a pair-bond for life. Perhaps it is time for people to debate this issue honestly. Perhaps individuals should challenge the norm, to create and develop new ways of loving with integrity which suit them and their […]
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Many Loves: Can Polyamory Be The New Normal?

Many Loves: An Alternative Loving Lifestyle? In the 21st century Western world, the establishment of Monogamy, one man partnered with one woman for life remains a social and religious construction which is still widely assumed to be the ideal and only valid relationship model for society.  Our culture, legal system and familial structures are predicated […]
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The Four Posts You Need To Be a Better Lover

Between the sheets or under the cover, everyone wants to be (or be with) a sexy, better, lover.   But most of today’s sex education comes in the form of porn. With its pneumatic leading ladies (and men wielding equally pneumatically-pumping penises), it’s like trying to learn how to drive a car from watching The […]
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Break up

5 Stages of a Break Up

I believe that being in a relationship gives you important life experience. It helps you grow. A lot of the life lessons I’ve learned have been during a relationship. But what happens when the partner in crime decides to break up? I’ve seen this happen to friends a few times. A distinct pattern shows to […]
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Older woman dating

Do Opposites Attract?

When it comes to dating and relationships, it’s a phrase we are all too familiar with: “opposites attract”. Though every cliché automatically provokes suspicion, it stands to reason that a saying this well-established must contain at least a grain of truth. Imagine, if you and your partner were both really talkative, you’d never manage a […]
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Dating After Divorce

One year ago my world came crashing down. I had been married for twenty-two years to a man that I loved and who I thought loved me. We had two grown-up children together and shared a lovely detached house in a leafy suburb. If there was such a thing as the English dream then this […]
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Older woman dating

More sex, please; we’re over 40

Research shows that sexually-active older women are likely to keep on having sex as they grow older. Who’d have thought it? It seems that research has finally backed up what we at Toyboywarehouse have always known; women don’t stop having sex as they grow older. At the University of Pittsburgh Medical Center a group of […]
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