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A New Year .. a new you!

A New Year brings fresh dating opportunities. Will you make the most of them? 

The flurry of festive activities is finally over. After the over-indulgence of a typical December, January can come as a rude awakening – full of diets, resolutions and dreary restrictions.

No wonder the traffic on internet dating sites rockets at this time of year. New members are joining in their droves. Because, who wants to face the chill of January alone? Especially as you still have half a tub of Quality Street to share with the toyboy or cougar of your dreams.

But how do you put your best foot forward and make the most of the new year’s new opportunities? Here are three simple steps to make the most of dating in 2014.

1) Look back before you look ahead

Before you can go forward, it helps to know what brought you to where you are now. What worked for you in 2013? More importantly, what didn’t work?

If you seldom received a reply to your messages, what changes can you make – are your messages cut-and-paste ? Do they sound cut-and-paste, even if they’re not? Do you give a compelling reason to answer through humour, observation or a great question? Is your photo giving the right impression or failing to show you in the best light?

Once you know what worked and what didn’t work for you, it’s simple. Do more of the former, and quit the latter. Because we all know that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over yet expecting different results.

2) Show up

The more active you are on Toyboywarehouse, the higher up you’ll show in member’s searches. The higher you are, the more visible you are. The more visible you are, the higher the chances of someone checking out your profile and breaking the ice.

Want to increase your exposure further? Start or add to a conversation on the forum. It’s a great way to raise your profile, and give other members a further insight into you.

3) Refresh yourself

When was the last time you over-hauled your profile? For some of us, the last time we wrote something for our profile was when we initially created it.

Take a look; does it reflect who you are now? Is it interesting, funny, smart, sexy – an irresistible reason for someone to contact you?

The festive season’s frolics also mean photos; you may find a new profile pic amongst them. Come on; who doesn’t want to meet someone who looks like they’re having fun?

(Remember; if the pics are visible on Facebook/social media, keep your personal info safe by cropping and/or photo editing them first to avoid Google’s image search.)

Start the year with these simple tips, and make it your happiest, sexiest, most fun one yet.

Happy New Year!

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