The T-Rex as some of you may know married Solid Wifely Potential.  He called me pretty much the day he got back from his honeymoon. Not once in all the time we were seeing each other did he mention he was actually ENGAGED-TO-BE-MARRIED.  I knew about his girlfriend but engaged?!?  Love at first sight aside, […]
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In October, the Spanish bullfight season terminated and the toreros prepared to fly south for the winter, to Mexico and Latin America. I was invited to accompany them but my father wouldn’t let me. And so the dream ended and I went sadly home.  I packed up my photographs, press cuttings, cine films, diaries, letters […]
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There is something about shoes, or more specifically women in heels, isn’t there. I’m guessing all of you gorgeous women own at least one pair that are strictly bedroom use only? This is usually because they would be no use to walk around town in on account of height and expense. But in the boudoir […]
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How do you explain to someone you haven’t seen for 44 years the depth of the footprint they left on your life? Especially when you only have 15 seconds in which to do it and they haven’t the faintest idea who you are!   This happened to me last week . . . but first […]
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I went to a friend’s birthday drinks in Kensington and arranged to go to this friend’s house around the corner for a drink after.  It was a fairly posh birthday ‘do’ in a posh bar, so I was dressed up.    Out of this world messy, movie star blow dry.  The perfect little black dress […]
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The results of a recent study carried out for Nuffield Health are somewhat disheartening regarding our national libido. It states that 73% of people said they regularly have too little energy at the end of the day for passion with their partner, and 58% of those blamed their barren sex lives on a lack of […]
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The new TBW will be launched in September with loads of new features. In the meantime check out the animation we submitted to Branson’s pitch TV. If we get a lot of votes (so please vote for it!) it’ll be shown on Virgin Atlantic. http://www.virgin.com/entrepreneur/innovations/pitchtv-toyboy-warehouse Do send feedback to admin to let us know what […]
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Not the 80’s hits from UB40 or Hue & Cry I’m talking about the similarities between getting an interview and a date on the Internet (or newspaper ad) So why are you after partner/job?   Well it’s either because you haven’t got one or the one you have is going to see you on anti-depressants […]
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I’m thirty-five. I’ve been saying this very slowly for the past couple of weeks or so. Thirty-Five. You know come this August six years ago BD didn’t even exist. He wasn’t yet even a glint in the eye of my “Before”. Still, Tempus fugit huh… Thing is though, I want to approach this admittedly “stops […]
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Its been a long, long time since I’ve written about my first boyfriend.   His name was Bobby Ray and we were in 8th grade.   He was the best looking boy in our class, possibly the entire school.   He had these hazel eyes that twinkled with flecks of gold like God dusted them himself.  […]
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