Friday morning was pouring with rain and it didn’t stop all day.  After a tour of the contemporary art gallery district in West Chelsea (the shift from the old galleries of Soho is now interestingly moving to the Lower East Side, including the New Museum on the Bowery – www.newmuseum.org), we headed to a one […]
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How on earth did I get from living in a loft apartment in trendy Hoxton (yes, I had the obligatory exposed brick wall and it was so gorgeous I used to spend hours just admiring it) to sharing student digs in a provincial town in the south of Spain? Why did I give up a […]
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New York Diary Part 1 Flying over the snowy wastes of Maine, I reflected that it had been 9 years since I was last in New York. As the plane passed Boston, the white patches far below changed to green and brown, and by the time we started the descent over the Hamptons, it could […]
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Watching the grey January, dusk just falling over the countryside slide by my train window, my mind wandered.  I had made a killer mix for my ipod (One Night Only, Friendly Fires, Laura Maling, The Magnetic Fields) for the trip up to Cambridge to see my cougar girlfriend.  The last time I went to Cambridge […]
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After my slightly introspective piece last time around, I thought I come back to my normal ways and boy, was it a busy Xmas and not to mention the TBW get together, not sure whether I should mention that on here – people might start recognising themselves.. It was at one of those very first […]
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So life’s tickety-boo again. I’m busy, I’m “out there”, my privately personified alter ego still affords me the success, the shags, the self-esteem. And yet here’s something that us Toymen probably lose ground on to you luckier Toyboys out there. The creeping sense that however smoothly you’ve at last got it all going, for some […]
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It’s TBW’s first birthday, so let’s raise our glasses (and wiggle our asses) to the life-changing efforts of our esteemed Ms J who has single-handedly brought a sexy smile to so many faces this past year.   Some of us gorgeous gals and brawny boys have fulfilled our fantasies and come together through this site, and […]
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What an eventful Christmas and New Year it has been. Due to some freak diary snowstorm, I went on about seven online-derived dates with different guys in the week or so before Christmas. This rounded off my Year of Going Out A Lot nicely – I still can’t believe that a modest librarian like myself […]
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Well, I thought it was time to give the guys a few tips on how to approach a woman. There are some basic differences between the sexes and I’m getting the impression that some of the guys on the site are blissfully unaware of them. Let’s start from the premise that, like any other dating […]
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