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“They giggled when I said I loved meeting younger men seeking love, lust & romance — But when I started feeling young and looking happy again, they begged me for my secret!”
Although a toy boy is someone with whom you’ll want to play and have plenty of fun, we’re not talking Action Man, Buzz Lightyear or Barbie’s Ken here! Sure, you might be able to pick him up and set him aside as and when you wish, or perhaps even acquire a new one when the last one lies in an exhausted heap after you’ve worn him out. However, the same can be said of the toy boy in relation to you – it works both ways. Despite the age gap, you’re both likely to be on the same page in terms of your relationship ‘needs’.
We know you’re not actually a prowling predatory animal (a cougar) out to ensnare an unsuspecting young male, because we know that those young toy boys are ready and eager – they don’t need to be caught and they certainly won’t behave like trapped animals. In fact, they want to date you because being ‘trapped’ is what they’re trying to avoid. Many toyboys don’t want to be tied down yet – that’s why they want to date you – the mature woman who’s already settled and happy in her own skin. Toyboys using cougar dating websites are looking for older experienced ladies who don’t need them, they just want them; chances are that you, the cougar, have ‘been there and got the baby-sick-covered t-shirt’ already.
Toyboy dating can help to breathe new life into your world, make you feel young, alive and attractive again – how? Because you’ll be spending time with a man who possesses those very qualities instead of one who hides his beer belly and bald patch behind the daily paper. After all, many middle-aged men jump ship for younger women and no one bats an eyelid. So, there’s no reason why you can’t follow suit and start enjoying the thrills of toy boy dating.
Men in their late 20s/early 30s generally aren’t as jaded as those that are older. They are driven by desires rather than constrained by obligations. Being around a younger man may actually help you set and reach your personal goals, because his ambition and energy inspire you.
You can’t teach an old dog new trick, but you can teach a puppy everything he needs to know. In the bedroom and beyond, younger men are more eager and willing to learn — and it’s refreshing to have someone appreciate the value of your life experiences. Additionally, younger men are normally not threatened by a woman’s accomplishments, they actually admire them.
Let’s admit it — younger men normally look better than older ones. And physical attraction is a big part of a relationship. Younger men are in shape. They have stamina in the bedroom. And they look fabulous on your arm at a party. You’ll love it.