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Toyboy Warehouse is the UK’s largest dating site specifically focused on matching gorgeous older women and charming younger men who are looking for love, lust and romance.
Established in 2006, Toyboy Warehouse is the original Toyboy & cougar dating site and has remained the UK’s largest and leading site of its kind.
Having always been attracted to younger men, Toyboy Warehouse founder Julia Macmillian realised there were no dating agencies specifically tailored to finding the younger men she desired. Speaking with many other women and men Julia quickly discovered that although often only discussed behind closed doors, many people were attracted to and intrigued by age-gap relationships. The decision was simple: Julia turned her focus to creating her very own toyboy and cougar dating site to do just that. Toyboy Warehouse was born and has since prided itself on celebrating relationships and connections of all sorts without the self-imposed boundaries of age.
Soon after the site launched the word began to spread...like wildfire. The slightly risqué nature of Toyboy Warehouse became the centre point of a cougar dating media frenzy and new members signed up in droves.
Over the subsequent years Toyboy Warehouse has continued to be the UK's largest cougar dating agency specifically for older women and younger men. During this time Toyboy Warehouse has proudly connected thousands of couples, many of who are still together today. Toyboy Warehouse couples have travelled the world together, got married and some have gone on to have children.
Toyboy Warehouse is not just a dating site, the purpose behind it runs a lot deeper than first meets the eye.
Since the beginning, Toyboy Warehouse has focused on creating a space free from all existing social connotations about age-gap relationships, on fun of all sorts, and facilitating users to build a genuine connection with one another.
Toyboy Warehouse continues to build an environment where women can be confident of their genuine appeal to younger men and where men can meet and interact with the gorgeous older women they desire without fear of rejection or judgement.
Over the years we’ve seen tens of thousands of people pass through the site and no matter what their intentions for joining were, the majority have left with a sense of liberation and increased appreciation of genuine connections with someone of the opposite sex from a different age range.
Age-gap relationships are no new thing. In short, an age gap relationship is when one person is at least a year older than the other. Traditionalists believe that men should be the older partner in the relationship. However, as time has progressed and cougar dating has become more popular, it has become more apparent that the basis of this perspective is simply non-existent or not true. Older women have successfully dated younger men for hundreds of years and many believe this is actually a better balance of age for a healthy relationship. Toyboy Warehouse speaks from the success of the hundreds of relationships and thousands of connections that have been formed between older women and younger men over the years.
The women of Toyboy Warehouse are an incredibly diverse group of individuals. They include international business executives using Toyboy Warehouse to plan dates when in London, divorced single mums who’ve decided they want to experience something new and even a few famous faces.
Like their backgrounds, the reasons why older women like dating younger men are just as varied. It’s best said in their own words:
“I got married and had a beautiful son at the age of 18. Almost 10 years later I had a painful divorce that left me quite broken. I spent the next 15 years raising my son and suddenly realised I was alone. I started dating guys my own age but failed to find anyone who didn’t bore me to tears. A chance meeting with a younger guy gave me an insight into dating someone younger; it was amazing. His energy was incredible. I made a vow to only date younger men since then and now I’m living my 20s in my 40s and and couldn’t be happier.” - Jacqui, 47, London;
“I’m 43, look 33 and feel 23. Dating younger men is the main reason why I feel so young. I got fed up with men my own age discussing what they have achieved and things they have done, whereas younger men focus on things they are going to do and going to achieve. It’s refreshing.“ - Pat, 43, Oxford;
“I love everything about younger men, partly because it turns out they love everything about me. I’d never dated anyone younger before I stumbled across Toyboy Warehouse. It has genuinely opened my eyes to a whole new world. Younger men try harder than men my own age or older, they understand this is necessary to keep a woman who knows what they’re talking about - like me.“ - Sharon, 56, Manchester.
Many women who have never dated a younger man before say the same thing: “I don’t see why someone several years younger than me would find me attractive: he could get someone his own age.” They have obviously never logged into Toyboy Warehouse! Many of the men on Toyboy Warehouse won’t even entertain the thought of dating someone their own age or worse, younger than them. Cougar dating is all some men want and here are a few reasons why:
“There is nothing more sexy than a woman who knows who she is, what she wants and how to get it. I’ve dated several girls my own age but got quickly fed up with game playing, insecurities and immaturity.” - Jamie, 29, Surrey;
“I’m a confident, outgoing guy who enjoys a challenging conversation. I’ve always had friends older than I am which is maybe why I prefer to date older women. I tend to have much more interesting, stimulating and in-depth conversations with older women.” - Ben, 34, London;
“Confidence and experience are very important to me. It obviously varies between individuals but based on the cougars I’ve met, older women have confidence and experience in abundance!” - Jacob, 31, Birmingham.
It’s simple, registering for Toyboy Warehouse enters you into the UK’s largest community of gorgeous older women and charming younger men looking for love, lust and romance.
Women are only able to see users younger than themselves and men are only able to see users older than themselves. Once your profile has been approved you are able to flirt with other members using winks, cards and favourites: you can connect further by using Toyboy Warehouse instant chat.
There are reasons why we’re Number One and these are the same as the reasons why you should join us:
It’s meant to be a secret, but the vast majority of dating sites are part of other, larger networks. This means that when you sign up to one website your data is shared across thousands of others without you knowing. For example, signing up to some Toyboy and Cougar dating sites will result in your details being shared among over 10,000 other dating sites regardless of their members' interests and behaviour.
Toyboy Warehouse is different. We always have been and always will be an independent cougar dating site specifically for older women and younger men. You can be confident that everyone you meet is a guaranteed and approved member of Toyboy Warehouse.
Toyboy Warehouse remains one of the only toyboy and cougar dating sites to manually approve all profiles by our inhouse moderation team. This means every profile, photo and comment is manually approved to ensure a very high quality of members for you to explore.
We take your security very seriously. Toyboy Warehouse takes the highest precautions to ensure your data protection. None of your personal data or information is ever shared with third parties.
If you’re looking for love, lust or romance - the answer is 'yes'.
If you’re looking for exciting connections based on chemistry, not age - the answer is 'yes'.
If you’re looking to meet confident, sophisticated, outgoing and intriguing people - the answer is 'yes'.
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