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Toyboy Warehouse Secrets 

Toyboy Warehouse Secrets lets you post your dating experiences, sexy stories and relationship nightmares totally anonymously. Did you just have a date from Hell? How about a date to remember? Whether you’ve found love, lust or romance, use Toyboy Warehouse Secrets to share your real thoughts and feelings.

Simply post your dating secrets anonymously to get featured on the official Toyboy Warehouse Secrets Instagram page.

Why not check out the previous confessions? From the sordid to the inspirational, learn the secrets of the gorgeous women and handsome men of Toyboy Warehouse.

How does Toyboy Warehouse Secrets work behind the scenes?

After you send your anonymous post, our moderation team get it ready to go live on the official Toyboy Warehouse Secrets Instagram page for the world to see (it’s a good job it’s anonymous!).

How long till my post goes live?

We aim to get all approved posts out within a few hours, however on rare occasions they can take up to 48 hours. Once approved, the moderation team use a service that can schedule Instagram posts to ensure your anonymous secret goes live. If you sent your anonymous post over 48 hours ago and it’s still not live you can contact us for more information.

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That’s right folks, in the long line of groups of people President-elect Donald Trump has insulted, mature women daters are now an addition.

In an interview with radio shock-jock Howard Stern, Donald Trump discussed dating women and how important their age is.

In the newly released tape from a 2002 interview, Trump calls 30 ‘a perfect age’.

So, how about 35? The soon-to-be President of the US says, ‘What is it at 35? It’s called check-out time’.

It’s far from the first time Trump has made misogynistic and lewd comments on Howard Stern’s show. In a bizarre 2006 interview, the topic of Trump’s daughter, Ivanka Trump, and her ‘voluptuous’ figure came up. Stern asked Trump if he can call Ivanka “a piece of ass,” to which Trump responds “yeah”.

Other controversial instances on Stern’s show include a 2010 interview where, in reference to Tiger Wood’s affair, Trump rejected the idea people can suffer from ‘sexual addiction’. In a 2005 interview, Trump talked about sleeping with contestants of his beauty pageants when offered, saying’ as the owner of the pageant, it’s your obligation to do that’. He also joked about being allowed in the contestants changing rooms, ‘you see these incredible looking women, and so, I sort of get away with things like that’.

Our thoughts

Toyboy Warehouse has seen thousands of mature women date and have fantastic relationships, is it time we pack up and go home? Is it true that after 35 women can no longer date, that they have to resign themselves with ‘checking out’?

It’s pretty clear to see we have some reservations with the above questions. The sentiment behind Trump’s words isn’t anything new, older women are expected to resign themselves to invisibility, to not be seen when others weigh up their dating options – it’s a pretty awful superpower.

When in actuality this sound be the loudest years of women’s lives, where sexual and relationship freedom means any and all enjoyment can be found.

What’s your thoughts on Trump’s comments?

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Want to join Toyboy Warehouse under the covers?

This Summer we’re taking a look at the topic of sex. Come with us to find out how British sex lives have changed in recent years. How has age-gap dating affected our love lives? Are we more or less frisky in the bedroom?

Take part in the largest age-gap dating survey ever commissioned.

You’ll also be automatically entered into our competition to win a whole year of Toyboy Warehouse Premium.

Take Part

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Our resident dating expert, Gaynor Evans, is back with another insightful Ask the Experts series. This time Gaynor is taking on a question from Janet in Darlington. Janet is dating a younger man, 16 years her junior to be exact. Things are going well but she’s wondering if things will inevitably fail because she’s in an age-gap relationship.

Find out the answer to Janet’s burning question on this instalment of Ask the Experts.

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It’s Keith’s first date with an older woman. He hasn’t got a clue where to go, what to do and how to act. Can our cougar and toyboy dating expert Gaynor offer some helpful tips.

I’ve got my first date with an older woman planned in a fortnight’s time… every date I’ve been on is with someone my own age. Does dating differ when it comes to cougars?

Gaynor walks us through the most important things you need to consider when dating an older woman. Like any other date it’s important to be calm and collective. ‘Keep things simple’ says Gaynor, ‘find somewhere you’re comfortable, maybe do a little reconnaissance’. Should you do in for the first kiss?0 what is it vital to do before you actually go on the date?

Check out our latest Ask the Experts video for all the answers.

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Ruth Saberton: Katy Carter Keeps a Secret

Nominee for the RNA’s Romantic Comedy of the Year Award, glowing reviews from daytime giants Richard and Judy, renowned guest writer for Little Black Dress, Avon, Orion, etc. – it’s not difficult to see why Ruth Saberton’s latest work makes our list. Saberton’s work fits perfectly in the romance genre. Emotion reigns supreme – the characters’ vulnerability, kindness, sadness and joy are central to what makes her novels so great.

One issue our panel sees with many romance writers is that of ‘one-dimensional’ characters. People are either the love interest, the antagonist, the comedic character and nothing more than that. For Saberton, her characters’ personalities extend well past these confines, understanding and relating to them are wildly more easy and enjoyable. Characters develop, not simply due to its necessity in the narrative, they develop intelligently. Your attitudes change so that you’re constantly enthralled. A personal favourite for our panel has been the Escape series and Dead Romantic, the latter mixing supernatural ideas with heartbreaking emotion.

It’s easy for us to say Saberton’s latest novel, Katy Carter Keeps a Secret, makes our list for the Most Eagerly Anticipated Erotic and Romance Fiction of 2016.

Available on 18 June, 2016. Get your copy here.

Lily Harlem: One Night in Cape Town

Number 23 in the City Nights series, One Night in Cape Town follows Tia, after her fiancé and best friend’s betrayal she escapes to South Africa. Anger doesn’t mask her desire for too long and soon she’s left to the mercy of a wild storm and the sexy and charming Levi’s survival skills.

Harlem’s work is easily commendable for its variety, no matter the story matter, love interests, gender, setting, Harlem keeps a smart and sexy current throughout. One of Harlem’s best work, The Silk Tie, is a favourite for our entire panel. Simply put, it’s hot! Really hot! Harlem seems to be the queen of the menage a trois, with Silk Tie (and it’s predecessor The Glass Knot) being 2 of the smartest, sexiest books our panel have read. Fire warning needed!

‘One Night in Cape Town’ is out 29th June. Available here.

Keep your eye out for cougar sex story, Toy Boy, out soon.

Sharon Lynn Fisher: Before She Wakes

We’ve seen a lot of authors mix fantasy and science fiction with eroticism, Sharon Lynn Fisher is a standout author in this hybrid genre. Before She Wakes is a series of short stories all embracing these themes and is set to be a fantastic piece of work. Not only is that obvious from Fisher’s past work that our panel loved (Ghost Planet being a particular favourite), early reviews have been glowing.

So many readers have been giving this series of novellas five stars on GoodReads with one reviewer saying ‘Wow. This collection of short stories was definitely a fun read. Every story was just so out there and interesting that at times I couldn’t help but be completely drawn into it.’

Our favourite thing about Fisher is her masterful creation of worlds, it’s easy to become invested in the fantastical settings that she creates. We’re hoping Before She Wakes is just as fantastic.

Purchase Before She Wakes on the 19th July here.

Sydney Landon: Aiden

Sydney Landon came to the attention of our panel because of the fantastic Weekend Required, part of the Danvers series. The novel follows couple; Claire and Jason. While the presence of a wonderful romance is undeniable, it’s the heartbreaking start of Claire’s story that turns this work from general romance to something you deeply care about. The following novels in the series (Not Planning on You, Fall for Me, etc.), don’t let the romance be extinguished. Subplots and other characters add to the rich and varied story, making these novels down all the more difficult to put down.

It’s the latest in the Lucian and Lia series which makes our list. Similar to the Danvers series, heartbreak from the start guarantees you relate and care deeply for the characters in this romantic series – especially in the second installment; the dramatic, yet at times wonderfully funny, Fractured. We can’t wait for the latest in the series: Aidan.

Aiden is available 31 Jul, 2016. Get your copy here

Audrina Lane: Bloodstained Heart

Our list wouldn’t be complete with a few darker tones, who doesn’t love a novel with something sinister? Audrina Lane’s Bloodstained Heart is set to have just that. Abandoned and betrayed, Felicity is hell bent on taking revenge and destroying the lives of those who get in her way. Following an evil and vindictive protagonist, Bloodstained Heart is set to be an enticing novel.

Lane’s work has never been afraid to look at the darker side of romance and love. Her novels mix laughter and melancholy, while keeping you on your toes with so many twists and turns. A good starting place is the fantastic The Heart Trilogy, which looks at themes of memory, love and loss and mother and daughter relationships.

Bloodstained Heart is out 8 July, 2016. Available here.

Cecillia Tan: Wild Licks (Secrets of a Rock Star)

Award winning author Cecillia Tan is back and it’s set to be as steamy as ever! We’re so excited for Wild Licks (Secrets of a Rock Star)!

Rock ‘n’ Roll, fantasy and magic, science fiction – Tan has done it all! While transcending so many genres, she has never neglected to inject romance, eroticism, intelligence and spellbinding enthrallment throughout her work. Daron’s Guitar Chronicles takes you back to the time of sex, drugs and rock & roll in the 80’s. Like most of his generation, Daron is lost and unsure of where his life is leading. A story of struggle, Daron’s Guitar Chronicles paints a world so vivid it’s difficult not to be enthralled.

A magic university, erotic sex and Cecilia Tan’s witty writing – what’s not to love? The Magic University series ask ‘what would Harry Potter be like at a hormonal, sex crazed university?’ Magic and eroticism mix to make this series fun and steamy in equal measure.

It was difficult for our panel to pick out particular stand out works in such a varied and wide ranging collection of novels, however other highlights include the award winning Slow Satisfaction and Slow Surrender, the BDSM driven Telepaths Don’t Need Safewords and the prequel to Tan’s addition to our list.

Wild Licks is out 2nd Aug, 2016. Get your copy here.

Laurelin Paige: Last Kiss

We’ve got some stern words for Laurelin Paige, release the second in the First and Last series already! After the cliffhanger in First Touch, we’ve been waiting for the the second in the series, Last Kiss, with bated breath.

First Touch was fantastic. Not one for the feint of heart, the novel never pulls any punches. It’s progantist, Emily, is far from a flat stereotype. Her complexity will make you hate and love her at the same time. Paige clearly knows what she’s doing, masterfully written and deliciously charming, the first in the First and Last series combines dark eroticism with intelligent grace.

One’s not enough! With so many of us needing the know what happens next, Last Kiss easily makes it on our list for the Most Eagerly Anticipated Romance and Erotic Fiction of 2016.

Last Kiss is available 14th June. Get your copy here.

Fox Emerson: A Boy Called Q & Toby

We can cheat! Fox Emerson is our first author to get two books on our list. A Boy Called Q and Toby are out 16th and 15th June respectively.  

Why has Emerson made our list? If you haven’t read Monique you are missing out. So many of our panel loved Emerson debut novel that he has to get a mention on this list. Monique follows Kelly-Anne as she struggles through a dark world of drugs, rape, violence and more. Warning, this is a powerful story that is far from light and fun, it is not an easy read yet is full of emotion and at times heart-breaking.

We’re really looking forward to Emerson’s latest work. The plot to A Boy Called Q is quoted as following ‘Q, [a] young man from Yorkshire who moves to London and finally gathers the courage to embark on his first gay, erotic experience with another man’. However for Emerson sensuality and eroticism isn’t all fine and dandy, torn between his gay feelings and his shame Q struggles to overcome what may have been ‘the biggest mistake of his life’.

Toby also makes our list, the novel follows a bisexual sex worker in Barcelona, whose life is  ‘spiraling out of control’. ‘In order to escape, he must win over the power his childhood demons have over him.’ If Toby is as powerful as Monique, we will not be able to recommend it highly enough.

Purchase Fox Emerson’s work here.

Brenda K. Davies: Good Intentions

If we were making a list of the top erotic novel front covers Brenda Davies (also writing under Erica Stevens) would take the number one spot. However, it’s not just the covers that have made us eagerly anticipate Davies’ next work.

Davies’ most popular series must her fantastic Vampire Awakening Series, currently spanning over 5 books. I know what you’re thinking; the vampire erotic thing has been done to death! Thankfully the series breaths new life into this subgenre, adding something extra that makes it more enthralling than so many other novels we’ve read. It would be difficult to go into detail without spoiling anything, but be rest assured, the mature use of action and eroticism makes this series something you need to check out.

Our addition to the list is the first in a new set of books, The Road the Hell Series. It’s set to continue the dark themes, supernatural and otherworldly ideas and exciting eroticism from the preceding series.

Good Intentions is out 17 Jul 2016. Get your copy here.

 Lainie Suzanne: Wicked

Nexus: The Core of Erotic Desires. What a name for a series opening book! The Nexus series is hot! Really hot!

The first in the series, our personal favourite, follows Katherine Stevens. Divorced and lonely she finds her life transformed after a night at Nexus, a local BDSM club. The second in the series, Soleil, follows Debra who ‘is on the verge of experiencing a life she never realized she desired’. The third, Deceit, features our most interesting character yet. Gina struggles to give herself to Leo as her dark past comes back to haunt her.

With erotic BDSM action these books are definitely not for the feint of heart. Suzanne pulls no punches in her depiction of the dramatic, sexual play. All of which seen through the seemingly innocent eyes of her protagonists.

We can’t wait for the next in the series, this time following the sordid Charlotte and Edward. Wicked is out June 28, 2016. Get your copy here.

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We’re pleased to announce Toyboy Warehouse Blog has won Best Dating Company Blog at the UK Blog Awards 2016.

Hosted at Park Plaza, Westminster the UK Blog Awards brought together the biggest and best bloggers throughout the country. The awards celebrates a wide range of blogs, from photography to lifestyle, food and drink to travel. Toyboy Warehouse, a contender in the Dating Company category, was up against some stiff competition. eHarmony Advice Blog, Christian Connections, Guardian Soulmates were just a few of our fellow finalists. Thankfully our wonderful blog made the grade and won the prestigious award. All this just a few months after winning Best Commercial Dating Blog at the UK Dating Awards 2015.

Toyboy Warehouse blog has been running for nearly 10 years, as an authority figure when it comes to age-gap dating we’ve helped and informed tens of thousands of people going through their dating lives. We’ve always supported age-gap relationships and worked hard to remove the stigma that remains in society today. The blog has helped massively with this, and being recognised for our work is a fantastic honour.

Toyboy Warehouse Blog would be nothing without our fantastic bloggers, ranging from dating experts to real life members. We firmly believe no one is better to discuss age-gap dating than those who live their life experiencing it.

We’d like to take this opportunity to share this award with the people that have helped us along this fantastic journey. For budding writers out there who have experiences to share, we always love to hear from you.

Thank you

Lillian Long

Marzena Kubiak

Gaynor Evans

Grace Smith

Trust the Years

Jess King

Leanne Cooper

Triss Duncan

Jonathon Damian

Daniel Lavey

Henry Beedle

Sian Siviter

Rebecca Perkins

and many more.

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Toyboy Warehouse has the UK’s biggest dating community exclusively for older women and younger men. So who better to host fantastic Singles’ Evenings throughout the country? Toyboy Warehouse has hosted loads of events and each time more and more people attend, find dates and start relationships. So if you haven’t attend one yet, what have you been missing out on?

Cocktail Evening at Be at One – Nov 2015

Who doesn’t love an expertly crafted, delicious cocktail? Well when you have fantastic drinks and mix it with an electric atmosphere you make one unforgettable night. Last year Toyboy Warehouse hosted a very special cocktail night at Be at One bar, with an open plan dance floor to show off some moves or an intimate booth to get cosy with a special someone it proved to be a great event. The 2 for 1 cocktails didn’t hurt either!

‘I was a little nervous at first coming on my own, however within a few minutes everyone was chatting, flirting and making friends. The event host was really helpful too’.

– Anna, 39

Singles’ Evening at Love Die Late – Multiple dates

If you enjoy something once, why not do it again? Love Die Late is a romance inspired coffee-by-day, cocktails-by-night venue, such a hit with our guest we’ve hosted our

Singles’ Evenings here twice! With classic romance movies in the background and cocktails and champagne at the bar, this venue is a must-see. If you didn’t get a chance to grab your ticket, don’t feel too bad, tickets do sell out fast! For those who did attend, we did see quite a few of you cuddling on the sofas (you naughty devils!)

Your Event Host

Toyboy Warehouse Events would be nothing without our fantastic event host, so we’d like to introduce you to Kelly. With years of experience in running events, you can feel safe her dating knowledge will make sure you have a night to remember! Whether you’re a little unsure of what to do on the night or maybe you’d like to ask some advice, simply chat with our event host who’s always happy to help.

Why you should check out Toyboy Warehouse Events?

• Relaxed atmosphere, no pressure
• Come alone or come as a group – both are welcome
• The best event hosts
• Guaranteed flirting and fun

Don’t miss our next event 

Channel your inner Bond/Bond Girl for a night of high stakes and fantastic company. Toyboy Warehouse is hosting another sell out Singles’ Evening at Grosvenor St Giles Casino, who knows what jackpot you’ll be coming home with?

We’ve pulled out all the stops, included with your ticket is entry to the event, a £5 gaming chip, a complimentary drink, a 1 hour casino lesson and entry into our competition where you can win a bottle of sparkling wine.

Find some love, lust and romance around the roulette table, check out our latest event here.

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There’s another cougar dating dilemma. Don’t fear, our resident cougar expert Gaynor Evans is here to answer your questions.

After my girlfriend left me for my best friend I now can’t trust older women.

Joseph from Reading was smitten by Stacey, that was until she left him for his best friend; someone she claims is more mature than Joseph. This bad experience has left Joseph broken and unable to trust older women. How will he get passed this? Are all older women only looking for a mature toyboy?

Check out our latest Ask the Experts video for the answer.

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