30 Dating Dilemmas in 30 Days – Elisa Robyn
Toyboy Warehouse has 30 days to gather the most influential dating and relationship experts to help answer 30 dating dilemmas from real members. It’s a race against time to solve the world’s love issues, will we make it?
Tell us about yourself:
My name is Dr. Elisa Robyn and I have a PhD in Educational Psychology. I have just transitioned from a 20 year career as an Academic Dean into my own private practice as a Transitions and Prosperity Expert. My goal is to inspire a renaissance of spirit in my clients, helping them create the life they crave. I am also a professional astrologer.
If someone came to you for dating/relationship advice, what should they expect?
I have four steps to create the life people want. First we focus on true values and desires. Then we subtract everything that is not symmetrical with the life they want to build. Next we work on drawing or “seducing” that life. This means we do not chase after desires, we call them to us. Finally, we look at how to sustain this life. IF the client is open to it we will start with a deep dive into their astrological chart.
What are some of the projects you’re currently working on?
I am working on my third book, have a weekly radio show, and continue write for several online magazines. My ongoing work is in the area of healing our broken hearts to build a more prosperous life.
“I don’t find women my age interesting, I’ve always much rather relationships with older women, would they be interested in a younger guy like me? Love Rob”
Hello Rob. It is wonderful that you know yourself so well. There are many older women who would be interested if you are willing to continue to grow emotionally. Older women are interested in men who are fun, and yet have a sense of maturity, patience and a willingness to learn. Keep working on your own life, including your career so that you feel financially and emotionally secure. This is very attractive to any woman, but especially women who share those traits. Make sure you know what you enjoy doing so that you can find a woman who shares your interests. Are you more athletic or more artistic or both? When you are secure in yourself you will find that women are attracted to your self confidence as well as your interest in them. Best of luck
“I’ve recently become pregnant for the first time, I’m single and have been dating for a while beforehand. How will my dating life change when I start to show? How about when I’m a single mother?”
Hello Linda. This is an exciting and challenging time for you. It is very courageous of you to follow your dreams and have a child on your own. Your attitude and behaviors once you begin to show will determine how your dating life changes. Men will want to know that you are taking care of yourself and your child. They will also want to know your expectations of them. Make sure you take some time to reflect on these issues so you know what you want and can clearly express this on a date. This is also true once you are a single mother. If you are happy and joyful about your life, and are taking care of yourself and your child, men will be attracted to you. You will be loved at the level that you love yourself. You are a courageous woman and will find a courageous partner. Best of luck.